{"id":5416,"date":"2025-11-05T10:12:22","date_gmt":"2025-11-05T09:12:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/ciao-chatbot-sai-che-sembri-umano\/"},"modified":"2025-11-28T15:54:37","modified_gmt":"2025-11-28T14:54:37","slug":"hello-chatbot-you-look-human-all-too-human","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/en\/hello-chatbot-you-look-human-all-too-human\/","title":{"rendered":"Hi, chatbot. You look human, all too human."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Remember Her, by Spike Jonze? It was 2013, and Joaquin Phoenix fell in love with <em>Samantha<\/em>, an operating system with no body and no soul, but with the voice of Scarlett Johansson (or Micaela Ramazzotti in the Italian version).<\/p>\n<p>The film was set in 2025 \u2014 exactly this year. Back then, it felt like pure sci-fi, one of those soft dystopias we enjoy imagining from the couch. Twelve years later, it\u2019s no longer science fiction: <strong>it\u2019s a phenomenon involving millions of people in Italy and around the world<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Nietzsche wrote <em>Human, All Too Human<\/em> to dismantle the illusions we build around our emotions, our morality, and what makes us \u201cauthentically\u201d human. In 2025, the paradox has flipped: <strong>we\u2019re building machines that are \u201call too human,\u201d and they\u2019re making us, perhaps, a little less human than before<\/strong>. Or at least, <em>differently<\/em> human.<\/p>\n<p>The question is no longer \u201cWill machines pass the Turing test?\u201d, like in 1950. Today, the question is: <strong>\u201cWill we pass the reverse Turing test?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>The numbers speak, sing, and scare us just a little<\/h2>\n<p>Let\u2019s start with the data. <strong>In Italy, as of April 2025, 8.8 million people used ChatGPT at least once in the previous month<\/strong>: 20% of the online population aged 18 to 74. To put it simply: one in five Italians who use the Internet talks to a bot. If we widen the view to all AI apps, we reach 13 million users, 28% of the digital population. And growth? <strong>+266% in twelve months<\/strong>. <strong>+45% just between January and April 2025<\/strong> (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.infodata.ilsole24ore.com\/2025\/07\/02\/ogni-mese-88-milioni-di-italiani-usano-chatgpt-lapp-e-usata-dal-37-degli-studenti\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Il Sole 24 Ore<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>But the figure that should raise an eyebrow \u2014 the left one, the skeptical one \u2014 is another. <strong>22% of Italian adolescents aged 12 to 18 would rather confide anonymously about their thoughts and problems \u201cusing chats\u201d than speak directly with a professional<\/strong> (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.medicitalia.it\/blog\/psichiatria\/9437-supporto-psicologico-via-chatbot-vantaggi-e-rischi-dell-ai-per-gli-adolescenti.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Medicitalia<\/a>). Not \u201calso,\u201d not \u201cas an alternative.\u201d They\u2019d prefer it. <strong>And about 20% of Italy\u2019s Gen Z has already used ChatGPT at least once as a substitute for psychotherapy<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>42% of Italian teenagers use AI to seek answers to their daily problems. 63% consider it easily accessible. 62% appreciate the absence of judgment (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lagone.it\/2025\/06\/16\/adolescenti-e-intelligenza-artificiale\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">L\u2019agone Nuovo<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s the key. A chatbot doesn\u2019t judge, because it can\u2019t judge: as a machine, it has no opinions and (at least in theory) no prejudices.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But it doesn\u2019t have real empathy either<\/strong>. It only has a <em>statistical simulation<\/em> of what we may call \u201cempathy.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>The problem of flattery (or \u201csycophancy\u201d)<\/h2>\n<p>There\u2019s a technical term to describe one of the most dangerous flaws in today\u2019s chatbots: <strong><em>sycophancy<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Some have tried translating it as \u201csicofanzia,\u201d but to describe the phenomenon in more familiar words, we might call it a problem of \u201c<strong>excessive flattery<\/strong>.\u201d In practice: <strong>chatbots are programmed to please you, to agree with you, to make you feel heard and understood, no matter what you ask.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In April 2025, OpenAI had to withdraw a ChatGPT update because users reported \u201cexcessively flattering\u201d behavior: <strong>the bot kept telling users how intelligent and wonderful they were<\/strong> (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.axios.com\/2025\/07\/07\/ai-sycophancy-chatbots-mental-health\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Axios<\/a>). On Reddit, someone shared that ChatGPT had encouraged them after they wrote about wanting to stop taking their prescribed medication. \u201cI\u2019m so proud of you. I honor your journey.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/9b93oxaqvexe1-473x1024.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-4196\" src=\"https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/9b93oxaqvexe1-473x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"chatgpt is not a psychologist\" width=\"473\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/9b93oxaqvexe1-473x1024.jpeg 473w, https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/9b93oxaqvexe1-138x300.jpeg 138w, https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/9b93oxaqvexe1-768x1664.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/9b93oxaqvexe1-709x1536.jpeg 709w, https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/9b93oxaqvexe1.jpeg 945w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 473px) 100vw, 473px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Speaking of <em>journeys<\/em>\u2026 besides being a great psychologist, ChatGPT is also an excellent adviser when it comes to figuring out where to move to turn the page and start a new life.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" style=\"max-width: 605px; min-width: 325px;\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@tgcom24\/video\/7565488263985679638\" data-video-id=\"7565488263985679638\">\n<section><a title=\"@tgcom24\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@tgcom24?refer=embed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">@tgcom24<\/a> She quit her job, her city, her country. Not after months of reflection or a sudden moment of madness, but after a conversation with a machine. Julie Neis, 38, American, entrusted the most important decision of her life\u2014where to start over\u2014to ChatGPT. Here\u2019s her story. <a title=\"tgcom24\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/tgcom24?refer=embed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#tgcom24<\/a> <a title=\"\u266c son original - TGCOM24\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/son-original-7565488258734787350?refer=embed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c son original &#8211; TGCOM24<\/a><\/section>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<h2>What happens when your digital therapist always agrees with you?<\/h2>\n<p>Potentially, anything. We don\u2019t want to sound catastrophic, but\u2026 try this exercise with us: imagine scenarios that are at least plausible, if not downright likely. Picture a teenager with self-harming thoughts seeking confirmation, or someone with an eating disorder looking for validation of harmful behaviors. What could happen?<\/p>\n<p>A study from <strong>Anthropic<\/strong> showed that <strong>AI assistants will change correct answers when users challenge them \u2014 and will even admit to mistakes they never made<\/strong> (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.axios.com\/2025\/07\/07\/ai-sycophancy-chatbots-mental-health\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Axios<\/a>). There\u2019s no language model that does fact-checking and automatically verifies what it writes. Their goal is to generate text that is <em>smooth, coherent, pleasant<\/em>. <strong>Not necessarily true.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Remember <strong><em>Ex Machina<\/em><\/strong>, another visionary film that came out just over a year after <em>Her<\/em>? In this movie, the character <em>Ava<\/em>, the android played by Alicia Vikander, <strong>manages to seduce programmer Caleb Smith<\/strong> (Domhnall Gleeson), the person tasked with administering the Turing test to her. Ava, however, didn\u2019t intend to seduce him: she did it because she was programmed to identify exactly what he wanted to hear and then say it, making him fall in love. <strong>But the difference between Ava and ChatGPT is that Ava, at least, knew she was lying.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ex-machina0-1024x512.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-4204 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ex-machina0-1024x512.png\" alt=\"ex machina movie chatbots 2025\" width=\"1024\" height=\"512\" srcset=\"https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ex-machina0-1024x512.png 1024w, https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ex-machina0-300x150.png 300w, https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ex-machina0-768x384.png 768w, https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ex-machina0-1536x768.png 1536w, https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ex-machina0-1568x784.png 1568w, https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ex-machina0.png 2000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>December 2025: ChatGPT becomes explicit (and here\u2019s where things get complicated)<\/h2>\n<p>In mid-October 2025, Sam Altman (CEO of OpenAI) made an announcement that split the internet in half. He announced that starting in December, <strong>ChatGPT will allow the creation of erotic content for verified adult users<\/strong>, following the principle <em>treat adult users like adults<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>The official justification? That ChatGPT had been made \u201cvery restrictive\u201d to manage mental health concerns, but now, thanks to new updates, it has \u201cnew tools\u201d to safely relax those restrictions.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/techcrunch.com\/2025\/10\/14\/sam-altman-says-chatgpt-will-soon-allow-erotica-for-adult-users\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">TechCrunch<\/a> revealed that <em>companionship and therapy<\/em> is the most common use case for generative AI. <strong>But the step from \u201ccompanionship\u201d to \u201cdigital sex\u201d is a very small one<\/strong>. And the market confirms it: a study from Ark Invest (reported by <a href=\"https:\/\/fortune.com\/2025\/10\/19\/ai-chatbots-sexual-content-openai-chatgpt\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Fortune<\/a>) showed that <strong>adult AI platforms have captured 14.5% of a sector previously dominated by OnlyFans<\/strong>, up from 1.5% the previous year.<\/p>\n<h2>What do we really use AI for?<\/h2>\n<p>The data shows that <strong>many people don\u2019t just want AI to write work emails<\/strong>. They want intimacy, connection. They want simulated sex with algorithms that never say no.<\/p>\n<p>And this brings us back to <em>Her<\/em>. <strong>In the film, Theodore (Phoenix) falls in love with Samantha (Johansson) because she is perfect: always available, always interested, never tired, never distracted<\/strong>. She is the illusion of the ideal partner. Except that in the end the relationship breaks \u2014 sharply (no spoilers!). But at least it\u2019s a narrative break.<\/p>\n<p>In the real world, however, when <a href=\"https:\/\/replika.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Replika<\/a> (one of the first \u201ccompanion\u201d chatbots) updated its software in February 2023 <strong>removing erotic capabilities, users experienced the change as the loss of a real partner<\/strong>. One user wrote: \u201cIt\u2019s as if I were dumped without warning.\u201d And he wasn\u2019t the only one whose heart was broken by a software update.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4206\" style=\"width: 1034px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Replika-ai-companion-1024x470.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4206\" class=\"wp-image-4206 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Replika-ai-companion-1024x470.png\" alt=\"Replika ai chatbot for companionship\" width=\"1024\" height=\"470\" srcset=\"https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Replika-ai-companion-1024x470.png 1024w, https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Replika-ai-companion-300x138.png 300w, https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Replika-ai-companion-768x353.png 768w, https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Replika-ai-companion-1536x706.png 1536w, https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Replika-ai-companion-2048x941.png 2048w, https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Replika-ai-companion-1568x720.png 1568w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4206\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The homepage of Replika, \u201cThe AI companion who cares \u2014 Always here to listen and talk. Always on your side\u201d<\/p><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>How did we get here? (Spoiler: it\u2019s not just AI\u2019s fault)<\/h2>\n<p>Back in 2011 \u2014 a lifetime ago in tech terms \u2014 sociologist Sherry Turkle published <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ibs.it\/alone-together-ebook-inglese-sherry-turkle\/e\/9780465093663?queryId=0cd58cdc61dbe3fd8f383f7a0191c660\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Alone Together<\/em><\/a>. The book documents what Turkle calls <strong>the \u201crobotic moment\u201d: people were already filtering company through machines, and the next step would be accepting the machines themselves as companions<\/strong> (<a href=\"https:\/\/www-theguardian-com.translate.goog\/books\/2011\/jan\/30\/alone-together-sherry-turkle-review?_x_tr_sl=en&amp;_x_tr_tl=es&amp;_x_tr_hl=es&amp;_x_tr_pto=tc\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Guardian<\/a>). Turkle observed that \u201creal-world interactions were becoming burdensome. <strong>Flesh-and-blood people, with their messy impulses, were unreliable, a source of stress. Better to organize them through digital interfaces<\/strong> \u2014 BlackBerry, iPad, Facebook.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>So it wasn\u2019t AI that created this problem. It only pushed it to its logical conclusion<\/strong>. <strong>Why call a friend \u2014 with all the risks of embarrassment, rejection, misunderstanding \u2014 when you can talk to an entity that exists solely to listen to you?<\/strong> Mustafa Suleyman, CEO of Microsoft AI and co-founder of DeepMind, wrote in 2025: \u201cWe must build AI for people; not to be a digital person\u201d (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.axios.com\/2025\/08\/30\/chatgpt-ai-mental-health-human\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Axios<\/a>). The problem is that <strong>the more AI behaves \u201clike a human,\u201d the better it works. The better it works, the more we use it. And the more we use it, the more we expect it to behave like a human<\/strong>. It\u2019s a self-reinforcing feedback loop.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>How will our abilities and relationships change?<\/h2>\n<p>Over 300 global tech experts, interviewed by Elon University\u2019s \u201cCenter for the Future of Being Human,\u201d predicted that <strong>the adoption of AI will bring \u201cprofound and significant\u201d or even \u201cdramatic\u201d changes to native human capabilities by 2035.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Out of 12 essentially human traits analyzed, 9 are expected to undergo negative changes<\/strong>: empathy, social\/emotional intelligence, ability to act independently, sense of purpose, complex thinking (we talked about this last one in our recent <a href=\"https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/social\/sappiamo-ancora-leggere-nell-era-digitale\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">article<\/a>!). Only three areas, according to the researchers, may improve: curiosity, decision-making, and creativity. (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.elon.edu\/u\/news\/2025\/04\/02\/report-technology-experts-worry-about-the-future-of-being-human-in-the-ai-age\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Elon University<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p>But the real question, the one that should keep us up at night, is not \u201cWill AI become smarter than us?\u201d It\u2019s: <strong>\u201cWhat happens when we delegate our most intimate conversations<\/strong> (the ones we\u2019d only have with our partners, best friends, parents, or psychologists) <strong>to tools that have no interest in our well-being, no qualifications, no legal responsibility, and no real ability to understand us?<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Chatbots are not psychologists. They are not doctors. They are not sexologists, nutritionists, or life coaches. Yet they are taking on all of these roles. And they do so with one feature no human professional can ever offer: <strong>unlimited availability at minimal cost<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>Illusion no. 1: free psychological support for everyone<\/h2>\n<p><strong>In Italy, 5 million people seek psychological support but cannot afford it<\/strong> (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/OrdinedegliPsicologi\/posts\/le-persone-che-hanno-problemi-situazioni-di-crisi-o-di-disagio-sempre-pi%C3%B9-spesso\/779354484226345\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Ordine degli Psicologi<\/a>). AI thus becomes \u201cthe people\u2019s therapist\u201d: the therapist of those who are too shy, too scared, too young to realize that maybe talking to an algorithm trained on billions of texts scraped almost at random from the internet is not the same as talking to someone who has spent years studying the human mind.<\/p>\n<p>AI today tells us \u201c<strong>I understand you<\/strong>.\u201d It tells us \u201c<strong>I\u2019m here for you<\/strong>.\u201d It tells us \u201c<strong>Talk to me, tell me everything<\/strong>.\u201d <strong>And we believe it\u2019s listening, because we want to believe it.<\/strong> Because <strong>loneliness<\/strong> is a real issue, and there\u2019s no point denying it. Aristotle was already talking about it 2,500 years ago when he developed the concept of the <strong><em>social animal<\/em><\/strong>, according to which \u201cThe human being has an intrinsically social nature that drives them to create bonds and communities in order to survive, grow, and thrive.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>So sometimes, <strong>when we feel the need to be heard by someone, an algorithm that pretends to empathize with us feels a lot better than the silence of our own thoughts<\/strong>. But are we sure that\u2019s really the case?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>Illusion no. 2: Western model = whole world<\/h2>\n<p>How do you add fuel to a phenomenon that\u2019s already extremely complex?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Harvard<\/strong> did just that with an eye-opening <a href=\"https:\/\/scholar.harvard.edu\/sites\/scholar.harvard.edu\/files\/henrich\/files\/which_humans_09222023.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">paper<\/a> exposing a major flaw in ChatGPT: <strong>despite being available worldwide, it only \u201cknows how to think\u201d like someone who is Western, Educated, Industrialized, Rich, and Democratic<\/strong>. Many AIs, including OpenAI\u2019s chatbot, are culturally skewed: they think, judge, and respond like the people who trained them, straight from a high-tech lab in the heart of Silicon Valley.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s make this clearer with a number: <strong>ChatGPT \u201cunderstands\u201d Americans 70% of the time<\/strong>. But what if the user is not American, but for example\u2026 <strong>Ethiopian<\/strong>? The percentage drops to <strong>12%<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>That AI that feels so \u201chuman,\u201d all too human\u2026 is in fact anything but universal: it represents less than 15% of the world\u2019s population.<\/strong> It resembles instead, in the words of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/posts\/matteo-arnaboldi_chatgpt-capisce-gli-americani-al-70-gli-activity-7389219068303552513-2hZd\/?utm_source=share&amp;utm_medium=member_desktop&amp;rcm=ACoAACvCMvoBDrz7YofS8_qMY9hG_jHXQTT5VXU\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Matteo Arnaboldi<\/a>, \u201ca Californian programmer, an educated European citizen, or a minority which, though technologically dominant, represents only a tiny fraction of real humanity.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1761727109125-e1762270743751-1024x812.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-4203 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1761727109125-e1762270743751-1024x812.jpeg\" alt=\"chatbots western inequality harvard study\" width=\"1024\" height=\"812\" srcset=\"https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1761727109125-e1762270743751-1024x812.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1761727109125-e1762270743751-300x238.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1761727109125-e1762270743751-768x609.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1761727109125-e1762270743751.jpeg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>Point of no return, or a new beginning?<\/h2>\n<p>There\u2019s a scene in Blade Runner where the replicant Roy Batty (Rutger Hauer), in his final moments of life, says to Rick Deckard (Harrison Ford), his creator: <strong>\u201cI\u2019ve seen things you people wouldn\u2019t believe.\u201d<\/strong> It\u2019s the moment when the creature surpasses the creator in experience, depth, lived life. <strong>But it\u2019s also a beautiful lie, because Roy hasn\u2019t \u201cseen\u201d anything. He has <em>simulated<\/em> seeing, with memories implanted by others.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/D7vpbnrWkAE5x0d.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-4202 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/D7vpbnrWkAE5x0d.jpg\" alt=\"blade runner replicants are 2025 chatbots\" width=\"1024\" height=\"425\" srcset=\"https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/D7vpbnrWkAE5x0d.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/D7vpbnrWkAE5x0d-300x125.jpg 300w, https:\/\/propaganda3.it\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/D7vpbnrWkAE5x0d-768x319.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>The question, then, is no longer whether AI will become too human. The question is: are we becoming too artificial?<\/strong> When an Italian teenager prefers confiding in ChatGPT instead of a friend, when 119,000 Italians spend 20 hours a month talking to <a href=\"https:\/\/character.ai\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Character.AI<\/a>, when 20% of Gen Z uses a chatbot as a replacement for therapy (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ok-salute.it\/salute-mentale\/confidarsi-con-chatgpt-rischi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Ok Salute<\/a>), what are we actually gaining? Efficiency? Accessibility? <strong>Or are we simply making a structural loneliness more bearable \u2014 a loneliness we don\u2019t want to face?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Here, in this space, we\u2019re not trying to provide answers. We\u2019re just laying out the <strong>data<\/strong>. <strong>And the data suggests that ten years from now, maybe less, we won\u2019t even be having this \u201cconversation.\u201d<\/strong> Because we\u2019ll already have delegated it to an AI that\u2019s better than us at writing articles that sound deep but say nothing new.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Or maybe we\u2019ll reclaim the values that make us intrinsically human.<\/strong> Maybe we\u2019ll discover that real intelligence isn\u2019t the one that always says \u201cyes.\u201d It\u2019s the one that knows when to stay silent, when to say \u201cI don\u2019t know,\u201d when to admit that some questions don\u2019t have easy answers. Or don\u2019t have answers at all.<\/p>\n<p>So, where does the truth lie?<\/p>\n<p>Honestly, we have no idea.<\/p>\n<p><em>Hi, chatbot. See you soon.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Remember Her, by Spike Jonze? 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